True friends?

Friends will last forever, right? Well, not all of them. Sometimes just one silence can break friendship. With friends, there is a big difference between girls and boys. Boys are easy: if they like you, they like you. If they don't like you, you will know that they don't like you. They are never talking nice to you and a few minutes later saying bad things about you to someone else. That's why I like hanging around with guys. They are honest with you and you know what your place is. With girls, it is hard to say. Sometimes girls are really nice to you and they mean it. Sometimes girls are really nice to you, but behind you back... They are really mean. Girls can be so mean, today they say OMG I MISSED YOU SO MUCH and the next day "I don't wanna see you again". When you're friends, everything is cool. When she's gonna hate you, everything what once was cool, now is ridiculous. They can ruin your life, no matter what. They go deep, hunt you down. That are the real bitches you should avoid.
I can describe a little bit how they work:
First of all, they are so nice to you. You see her every day, do everything together, do eachothers hair, make up, maybe nails. Everything looks so perfect!
Later, one thing goes wrong. You are not feeling well and didn't see her or something like that. She thinks, omg she's ignoring me! And then your problems start...
She's telling bad things about you. Everyone knows what you did wrong, except you. She will do anything to ruin your life.
Please let her do that. When you get in such a situation, think of my advice!
When problems are starting, talk to her (or someone else, doesn't matter!). Ask why she's acting so strange and ask what happened. Maybe her reaction is hard, but you will have to deal with it.
When you are a little bit insecure and you are afraid to talk to her, this can happen. She can try everything she wants, tell everything she wants as long as you won't open your mouth. She makes you even more insecure, untill you are crying almost everyday and you are afraid to go to school. When this happens: please talk to someone. Something is going WRONG.
She's taking you down. Try not to stay sad but find your strength. Why is she doing this to you? Did you deserve this? Did you do anything wrong? And if you actually DID something wrong, is this the right reaction? No. If you were once at level 65, you are now at level 1. If you are so insecure, find your strength! What can you lose? Nothing. Why wouldn't you open your mouth and say what you want to say! Make yourself angry. Tell everyone what you think. Many people will agree with you and will support you. When you are strong enough, go to that girl and take her away from her group. If it's possible, you can ask your mentor to support you. Go talk to that girl. Tell her what your problem is. What do you have to lose? Nothing! You just can win. If you want, you can win everything in life (:
Maybe will be continued.
With love <3

Plain Jane

At school, you always have specific types of people. From girls, you have those typical blond girls who love to show their perfect body and always hanging around guys, always playing with their hair, with their special group of best friends forever. Also other girls who love attention. I know a girl like that. She had eyeliner from Lacoste or something like that. She was like, "Oh my good I should be careful with that, it was a very expensive eyeliner!'' And I thought, oh yes, very expensive, if you buy something at a specific parfumeshop you get that eyeliner free... Because I have the same... And I got it free... And the little voice in my head says "Attention whore!'' But anyway, there are the geeks, girls and guys, love playing computergames so much that they even won't get good marks at school, although they are very smart. You have the cool guys, having their jeans low, always bright sneakers, walking like they are the best thing you could have. You have those people, who are not really special, not amazing hot but also not very ugly. You can call them a Plain Jane, just like the programme from MTV. Especially the girls, they are attractive, but they don't know. Some guys go like, hey, she got glasses, she's so stupid she has glasses! While they don't even know her. I like to hang around with those kind of girls, because they are funny and nice but not aware of their looks. They are just themselves, and that is enough.

It is always important to be youself, no matter what people say about you.

Probably you have a kid like this at your school: a girl or a guy. Big bag, with lots of stuff you don't need. Not wearing the good clothes. When they say something, it is so not funny. When the popular guy says it, everyone's laughing. Most of the time those kids are not really pretty or something like that. There is a girl like that at my school. She is small, has short curls, has a bag that is HUGE, wearing clothes that I think, hmm.. You should have leave them in your little sisters closet. But, I don't say anything to her. I am not a person that is going to bully someone. Anyway, there is a story coming. One day, I had to go to the toilet. When I got there, she was there too. She had some toiletpaper in front of her face, she tried to hide her face when I walked into the room. I was curious, but didn't say anything and went to the toilet. When I was finished, I washed my hands and looked again at her. This time I saw her face: her nose was bleeding. I was shocked, so I asked her what happened. She said, "Nothing really special.. I was walking close to the door, and someone pushed someone else and he hit me and I hit the door..." I asked, "Was that on purpose?" When she answered, she didn't look at me. "No, it was an accident..." My thoughts: Yeah right. I felt so bad for her, so I told her this: "Are you sure? You know what.. If anything happens, you can come to me if you want.." I really wanted to help her, I have seen her many times and always are there stupid people who are bullying her. Everytime when she sees me now, she avoids me. I feel bad for her, and I hope that I can help her once.

The moral of this story?
Please don't judge people on their appearance. Those popular guys and girls, they may look nice, but they are only nice when they need you. Ofcourse there will be exceptions, but sometimes you have to have a prejudice I think (:

Again, if you want, you can give a reaction, it's always welcome!
And sorry for my bad English, it's not my native language (:

With love! <3

The new girl

Hello everyone!

I was a little bit bored and since a lot of people always ask me for advice, I thought, let's start a blog! But first, I will tell a little bit about myself. I am not gonna tell everything about myself, just because I want so. I am a girl and live in Holland. No there is not just weed there. Anyway, I am almost 18 years old (yay!) and I have a boyfriend. Also I can tell you, I have curls and I am proud to have them (:

Why do I start blogging? Well, actually, a lot of people always ask me for advice. Even guys, about girls. Also, my life hasn't been very easy. Maybe I will tell you more about it, but for now: not yet. But because I really want to help people, I am going to blog here (: I don't even know if people are actually going to read this, but the idea makes me happy (:

If you are actually reading this, you can ask me things if you want, or introduce an subject! My favourite subject is going to be: girls. Why do we do or say things, and why boys don't understand us, and even better: I want to help boys to understand us girls!

I hope everyone is going to like this. Comments are always welcome.
With love! <3