donderdag 1 maart 2012

True friends?

Friends will last forever, right? Well, not all of them. Sometimes just one silence can break friendship. With friends, there is a big difference between girls and boys. Boys are easy: if they like you, they like you. If they don't like you, you will know that they don't like you. They are never talking nice to you and a few minutes later saying bad things about you to someone else. That's why I like hanging around with guys. They are honest with you and you know what your place is. With girls, it is hard to say. Sometimes girls are really nice to you and they mean it. Sometimes girls are really nice to you, but behind you back... They are really mean. Girls can be so mean, today they say OMG I MISSED YOU SO MUCH and the next day "I don't wanna see you again". When you're friends, everything is cool. When she's gonna hate you, everything what once was cool, now is ridiculous. They can ruin your life, no matter what. They go deep, hunt you down. That are the real bitches you should avoid.
I can describe a little bit how they work:
First of all, they are so nice to you. You see her every day, do everything together, do eachothers hair, make up, maybe nails. Everything looks so perfect!
Later, one thing goes wrong. You are not feeling well and didn't see her or something like that. She thinks, omg she's ignoring me! And then your problems start...
She's telling bad things about you. Everyone knows what you did wrong, except you. She will do anything to ruin your life.
Please let her do that. When you get in such a situation, think of my advice!
When problems are starting, talk to her (or someone else, doesn't matter!). Ask why she's acting so strange and ask what happened. Maybe her reaction is hard, but you will have to deal with it.
When you are a little bit insecure and you are afraid to talk to her, this can happen. She can try everything she wants, tell everything she wants as long as you won't open your mouth. She makes you even more insecure, untill you are crying almost everyday and you are afraid to go to school. When this happens: please talk to someone. Something is going WRONG.
She's taking you down. Try not to stay sad but find your strength. Why is she doing this to you? Did you deserve this? Did you do anything wrong? And if you actually DID something wrong, is this the right reaction? No. If you were once at level 65, you are now at level 1. If you are so insecure, find your strength! What can you lose? Nothing. Why wouldn't you open your mouth and say what you want to say! Make yourself angry. Tell everyone what you think. Many people will agree with you and will support you. When you are strong enough, go to that girl and take her away from her group. If it's possible, you can ask your mentor to support you. Go talk to that girl. Tell her what your problem is. What do you have to lose? Nothing! You just can win. If you want, you can win everything in life (:
Maybe will be continued.
With love <3

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